Friday, January 28, 2005
Man of the Future
Being 21 . Single . Average . Poor .
doesn't make ones take much notice of you .
Face it .
& hear the truth .
Being Man of 21th century ain't easy .
Back in the past ,
where Science & Technologies isn't that well-developed ,
Man were juz a bunch of barbarian ,
self-proclaimed Leaders over Woman ,
low or non educated ,
Work for the sake of survival ,
Plant and harvest for the sake of food ,
& sleep for the sake of sleep ???
And well... ,
Woman at that time ,
were the supporter/follower of all Man .
Life were simple then ~!~
Man & Woman Married ,
give birth to a bunch of kids .
Man , out , working , earning .
Woman , indoor , washing , watching.
Well ,
back now ,
Man are of much different roles .
Man being Man's Man ,
They also need to become a Woman's Man.
Confused ?
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Man's Man ??
of course ,
a man got to do what a REAL man should do ....
same as in the past ,
Supporting family ,
earning $$ ,
loves wife ,
loves childrens .....
bleh bleh bleh ,
those same old shit of what's expected of a guy~!
Woman's Man ??
i wonder....
if the
5 C's still in hot demand by woman now .....
Career
a good career where you earn $24,000 or more per annual .
Car
Those you own , cool , nice , funky onez...example : BMW
Cash
And i meant....lotz/tonz of it...
Condominium
And yes...in those city district area...
Club
Not those football club for goodness' sake... It's RAFFLES TOWN CLUB i'm talking about
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Well , of course ,
not all woman go for
5 C's ...
these requirement are only set by those
"Superifical Sterotype"
but with Reality Show like "
Bachlorette" ,
it's no doubt that even guys with looks , money & cars ,
you can't win the lady's heart .
Keywords : You gonna understand & love her deeply .
Imagine Love itself is already complicate enough ,
understand them ??
HA ...what a joke that is to be ~!
oh well ,
and juz as every woman getting smarter n smarter ,
and more n more independent comparing to before ,
it's no doubt that Man have lesser place of saying anymore .
From standing on top of the world with 2 foots on it ,
supporting woman on his back ...
Until 1 foot of Man & 1 foot of Woman on it.
EQUALITY ??
or
SURPASSING ???
oh well ,
who know ??
Woman might becoming the leader ,
whilst Man becoming the follower .
and from then on ,
Science will make Man under-going suffering ,
throught 9 long months of pregnancy .
geesh ,
think i can forget abt being Woman's Man ,
Let me cook & be the WIFE for ya then ~!~
BeAv|s KaObEi at 8:37:00 PM
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Sunday, January 23, 2005
Arms Wide Open
It's never easy to forget ,
All those joyful laughters we ever had .
Streets and Paths and Roads and Tracks ,
You and I were hard to get .
But Sights of you were slowly gone ,
And here's the Phrase : " Let bygone be bygone " .
Beavis'05
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Tips No.357 for Lovers : Interact with everyone around him/her~!
Why ?
It's obvious that friends/parents/relatives play a big part in relationship ....
Love is indeed concern between 2 parties ,
but comments/feedbacks may cause some influence decisions to lover .
Imagine this :
Friends :
Hey , *** , how come your "big-nosed" boyfriend so anti-social ??
don't like us is it ??
Girlfriend :
No lah , he's juz shy that's all ...
Friends :
After so many meetings ??? *ponders
And soon after ,
Friends will thus have slightly bad impression abt you ....
Ok ,
it wouldn't affect your relationship much as in forcing you all to break up ,
but hey ,
wouldn't it be
BEST if you can score a 100 pts in front of his/her friends/parents/relatives ??
So how ?
For someone big-nose or acting cool or shy or whatever shitty result ,
It's simple ....
"....Simple??......geesh..."
sounded hard or *chim for you ??
Fear-not ,
it's indeed simple ....
All you need is a
1) pair of faking-yet-so-attentive eye contacts ,
2) pair of nice piercing ears that listens in through 1 side and yet out from the other ,
3) well-dental-care teeth that can used for fake Smiles ,
4) nice acted temper to tolerate all nonsenses from his/her friends
5) a list of corny jokes or questions ard with ya ......
and lastly ,
6) listen & talk throughout every single conversation with them
*(even if you ain't involved in the topic itself)
There you have it ,
Mr big nosey ~!
All you need is a little practise ,
stop all those actting cool movement .....
&
yes ,
you can score 100 pts with your lovers' friends/parents/relatives .
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Tips No.11598 for Ex-Lovers : Never Ever Run away when you saw him/her ~!
Running away from the party upon seeing your Ex ,
manz ....
You have juz made the worse move in your entire life ~!
So just what are you trying to show ??
that ya're angry ??
guilty ??
can't get over the matters ??
at a loss ??
hey , listen up ,
ya're definiately sending the wrong signal to the other party .
Ones observes actions/movement/speech
and thus trigger wild thoughts in their minds .
running/walking away ,
& party that staying ,
might think that ya're nothing but just a pathetic little earthworm that's
been struggle to dig its' way in the ground.
Ya...Ya...
okie ,
what if you never walk or run away ??
did you went up & talk to him/her ??
or even still , a simple smile back ??
If not ,
Then what's the difference from running away ?
Okie .
Face it .
Be it whoever ditched the other party .
It's been quite some time now ,
And i guess most of the saddest moments ,
embarrassment , guilt .....or whatever shit ,
should be gone btw both parties ....
so hey ,
take the initatives ,
take a steps forwards ,
& had a small , simple chat with the other party .
Do remember ,
First step of everything is always the Hardest .
but
second step onward ,
will definiately be a smooth n nice journey ahead of you .
BeAv|s KaObEi at 2:23:00 AM
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Tuesday, January 11, 2005
tHe EnD oF tHe BeGiNnInG ~!~
the first entry of yr 2005 ....
came all jolly-well too late to wish everyone a "
haPpY New Yr 2005"....
but it's better than never enter this entry ....
i didn't contribute much into blog lately .
i'm "speechless " .
blank , was in me .
wander , away my soul .
numb , 10 little fingers .
dumb , stick mine mouth .
maybe , i'm juz not too used in writting abt daily routine .
reporting my everyday where-about , what-about , how-about .......
who i'm with , what i did , what i buy , what i desire .........
i'm more of a social loner ~!
so don't expect me to write things where people don't even give a damn abt it .
To me , Blog ,
is a place , where all your true feeling come....
at that very point of time ,
but i have no ideas .....when will that be the point of time .......
in the midst of shitting , bathing , dreaming ???
So when there's no other places or frenz you can turn to , to destress , to relieve ,
that's when you blog ......
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thinking back about yr 2004 ,
never did i expect the Tsunami came so late into the last 5 days of the yr .....
just when everyone was awaiting for the lovely happy ending toward the year ,
disasters struck .
were there much tragics den joys around ??
certainly to an extent ,
Yes ..... and with a big bold "
YES" .
major earthquake , collapse of roads & building , deaths ...
"yes" u may said ,
"there's joy in the world too..."
but
grief overwhelmed joy .
who can still remember the day they knew a new frenz ??
that happy moment together ??
No One .
& yet , once they lost the frenz to the other world .....??
Everyone Remembers ....
i dunno why ....
maybe Man really take things for granted ,
never really appreciated the presence of it ....
that's y ....
God thought of a better ways for you to remember ......
that is to take it away from ya .......
Yes ,
for so many times ,
have we bluff ourself .......
"....we will learn to appreciate everything around us ...."
but have we really done that ??
once ,
when i was young .....ard 11 to 12 ....
i witnessed the death of grand-dad .
peaceful .
weep came from those relatives . especially women .
hated came upon me .
i despised for their action .
no love were shown while he's alive ,
no care were concern while he's around ,
& yet signs of regretful-ness . weeps . came too far late .
i didn't knew what came over me .
maybe just i hated the feeling of people leaving & everyone's crying ....
back to the tsunami ,
& yes ,
there were times where god take everything out of sudden ....
&
to me ,
it's always alrite to cry for someone who leave this world too sudden ....
i always feel that they have unfinished business , task , duty ....to fufill ,
& their family didn't even knew how to handle ...
too sudden ,
too shocking ......
i , just an average joe ,
if i happen to fly away to another world ...
have i accomplish the task given by god ????
BeAv|s KaObEi at 1:41:00 AM
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